Should You Leave Your Church? Church Membership & True Commitment
In this raw and honest episode of the Disciple Standard Podcast, we dive deep into what it really means to be part of a local church family.
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Do You Need to Know Everything to Disciple Someone?
What qualifies someone to disciple another person? Do you need years of Bible knowledge before you can teach? What happens when Christians disagree on baptism, communion, theology, or even what the “fundamentals” of Christianity are?
Why Grace Is So Hard to Believe
What shapes your sense of self?
You’ve Probably Been Taught Baptism Wrong
Baptism is one of the most debated topics in the church—and for good reason.
There’s More to Communion Than You Think
What are we actually doing when we take communion?
Are We Preaching the Gospel Wrong? Pastors Need to Hear This
What should a sermon actually be about?
Do You Really Belong to a Church?
What started as a normal conversation… turned into one of the most unexpected and honest discussions we’ve ever had.
Is The Pastoral Pipeline Is Breaking?
Why are so many pastors leaving ministry, and why are so few stepping in to replace them? In this episode, Scott, Jary, and Zach react to the growing pastoral shortage, talk through the collapse of the traditional pastoral pipeline, and wrestle with what seminaries, churches, and local leaders need to do differently. From seminary debt and burnout to mentoring, church culture, and leadership development, this conversation gets honest about the challenges pastors face—and hopeful about how healthier leaders can still be raised up. - Timestamps: 7:42 – The pastoral vacancy crisis and shrinking pipeline 11:15 – Video reaction: why pastors are leaving 15:42 – Is seminary preparing people for the wrong job? 20:59 – Zach’s take and resilience in ministry 29:37 – Case study: a young pastor burns out and leaves 36:20 – What actually helped Scott stay in ministry 42:01 – Zach on leaving pastoral ministry and finding his way back 51:16 – What churches can do to raise up healthier leaders 1:12:55 – Should some pastors step away for a season? 1:24:21 – Final encouragement: why there is still hope - https://disciplestandard.com/ Support the Podcast - https://www.patreon.com/c/DiscipleStandardPodcast Visit our church - https://sunlightchurch.com/ Connect with us - https://multiply222.com
What If We Raised the Bar Again?
Aaron’s out on new-baby duty, so Scott and Seron take the wheel—talking baby names (and meanings), Easter plans, gospel choir dreams, and how PROS is growing in Fort Pierce. Along the way they unpack hard Psalm lines, debate dramatized Scripture reading, revisit the Heidelberg Catechism, and wrestle with a bigger question: why does it feel like the bar keeps dropping—and what would it look like to raise it again? - Timestamps: 03:09 — Rudderless episode: “We can go wherever we want” 03:40 — Did Seron influence the name? + “Søren” pronunciation debate 07:14 — Being outnumbered by kids (and why that’s terrifying) 09:13 — Anastasia meaning confirmed + Easter hype begins 10:19 — Should Easter be bigger? “Go big or go home” 10:51 — Pitch: Psalm 150 gospel choir as the Easter closer 15:08 — Fort Pierce PROS update + Psalm 129 “Over Me challenge” 19:08 — “Plowmen plowed my back” explained (why we need context) 21:29 — PROS momentum + building core group / attendance realities 23:18 — Watching the 45 Days doc footage (soft launch + pressure) 26:44 — “Book of Notes”: not for ammo—accountability 32:03 — “First time Psalm 3 was sung in Fort Pierce” moment 34:26 — Hot take: dramatized Scripture reading (turn drama to 100) 35:16 — Heidelberg Catechism: why it mattered + how it faded 40:06 — “Why did we make the bar lower?” (raising the bar convo) 42:26 — Internet/reference culture: why we memorize less 44:44 — Communion + the “germs” debate + kids playing in dirt 47:09 — Testimonies + Psalm 133 (community emphasis) 50:35 — Invite push: first official Sunday services (4 & 6) 52:42 — What if it’s packed? overflow / scaling / multiply 54:46 — Volunteer vs serve + etymology moment 56:50 — Event page numbers: “55 interested” (what that really means) 59:53 — Worship/space reflections + tightening the service template 01:04:27 — Documentary approach = the new standard 01:06:52 — “Could there be 100 PROS services?” vision talk - https://disciplestandard.com/ Support the Podcast - https
Psalms, Playlists, and the Problem With ‘Feel-Good’ Worship
Why did the church lose track of its own prayer book? In this episode, we talk about bringing the Psalms back through worship — and why singing them might be the simplest path to memorization, discipleship, and deeper spiritual formation. We also get into modern music trends, “second-screen” listening, why a lot of worship lyrics feel copy/paste, and the strange new future of customizable worship tracks (yes… sliders for genres). Funny stories, real ministry takeaways, and a big question: is introducing Psalms in church risky — or is it just introducing the Bible? - Timestamps: 06:26 — Building the Worship Team (No More Open Invites) 09:36 — Introducing Psalm 3 15:13 — Singing = Memorizing 17:08 — From Skeptic to Advocate 24:03 — Are Modern Worship Lyrics All the Same? 27:28 — The Attention Economy & Shorter Songs 31:38 — The Genre Slider: Customizable Worship 36:45 — Is Introducing Psalms Risky? 39:21 — 150 Model Prayers 42:18 — “Feel-Good Drive to Work” Gospel? - https://disciplestandard.com/ Support the Podcast - https://www.patreon.com/c/DiscipleStandardPodcast Visit our church - https://sunlightchurch.com/ Connect with us - https://multiply222.com
How Did the Church Lose the Psalms?
Have the Psalms quietly disappeared from the modern church?
The Fallacy of the Balanced Life (and Why Transitions Are Normal)
Transitions aren’t the exception — they’re the norm. In this episode, we sit down with Calvin Theological Seminary President, Jul Medenblik as he prepares for a major leadership transition in the next year and a half.