
The Disciple Standard Podcast sparks the conversations the church can’t afford to avoid.
In an age where shallow faith and cultural conformity often pass as discipleship, we believe it’s time to raise the standard. Hosted by pastors Aaron Mamuyac and Scott Vander Ploeg from Sunlight Community Church, this show is part rallying cry, part discipleship manual, and part therapy session for believers who are hungry for something real. What started as a side conversation between church leaders has become a growing movement to restore the clarity, power, and urgency of biblical discipleship.
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The Disciple Standard Podcast sparks the conversations the church can’t afford to avoid. In an age where shallow faith and cultural conformity often pass as discipleship, we believe it’s time to raise the standard. Hosted by pastors Aaron Mamuyac and Scott Vander Ploeg from Sunlight Community Church, this show is part rallying cry, part discipleship manual, and part therapy session for believers who are hungry for something real. What started as a side conversation between church leaders has become a growing movement to restore the clarity, power, and urgency of biblical discipleship.

The Disciple Standard Podcast sparks the conversations the church can’t afford to avoid. In an age where shallow faith and cultural conformity often pass as discipleship, we believe it’s time to raise the standard. Hosted by pastors Aaron Mamuyac and Scott Vander Ploeg from Sunlight Community Church, this show is part rallying cry, part discipleship manual, and part therapy session for believers who are hungry for something real. What started as a side conversation between church leaders has become a growing movement to restore the clarity, power, and urgency of biblical discipleship.
Subscribe and listen today!
Why This Podcast Exists
The modern church is facing a discipleship crisis.
Despite an abundance of programs, sermons, and Christian content, many believers remain spiritually underdeveloped, relationally isolated, and missionally disengaged. We believe the way forward is not louder hype or flashier services—but deeper, more honest conversations about what it really means to follow Jesus in today’s world. That’s why we created this podcast: to open up the kinds of conversations we wish more churches were having. No fluff. No fear. Just truth, grace, and guts.
Recent Episodes
The Movement Starts Here: 2,000 Leaders in a Decade
This clip ...challenges the status quo, calls young leaders to step up, and casts a hopeful, gospel-centered vision for the future of the church.
If you’ve been waiting for someone to say it out loud—this is it.
00:00 – Welcome back + Scott’s European vacation
01:45 – Why Greece? Biblical geography + visiting Apollonia
05:00 – The Apostle’s Step + preaching where Paul once stood
07:00 – Slowing down as a pastor + spiritual discipline reflections
09:00 – Explaining Synod + what it is and how it works
11:00 – Why Synod 2025 matters: decline, sexuality, and the real issue
13:20 – 2017 overture: raising the alarm on denominational decline
15:00 – Multiply vision: 40 leaders in 10 years
17:00 – Strategy birth: how the 2009 crisis reshaped a classes
22:00 – 2023 overture fallout and planting momentum
26:00 – How overtures work + advisory committees explained
29:00 – Floor speech strategy: from frustration to motion
32:00 – Paul VanderPloeg’s “Mr. VanderPloeg Goes to Synod” video
36:00 – The funding crisis: Resonate’s painful announcement
39:00 – Church planting cutbacks & why it shocked the classes
41:00 – Scott’s floor speech clip: “We don’t lack anything”
47:00 – Gospel identity vs. blame + why decline must be addressed with action
52:00 – Jesus-centered leadership: problem-solving as gospel witness
56:00 – Multiply disciples. Multiply leaders. Multiply churches.
1:03:00 – Final floor motion: what passed and why it matters
1:06:00 – What’s next? Creating a denomination-wide plan
1:11:00 – Hesitations, leadership, and stepping into responsibility
1:13:00 – The 3-part plan: Disciples → Leaders → Churches
1:16:00 – Call to prayer + rallying the CRC for a gospel future
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This clip ...challenges the status quo, calls young leaders to step up, and casts a hopeful, gospel-centered vision for the future of the church.
If you’ve been waiting for someone to say it out loud—this is it.
00:00 – Welcome back + Scott’s European vacation
01:45 – Why Greece? Biblical geography + visiting Apollonia
05:00 – The Apostle’s Step + preaching where Paul once stood
07:00 – Slowing down as a pastor + spiritual discipline reflections
09:00 – Explaining Synod + what it is and how it works
11:00 – Why Synod 2025 matters: decline, sexuality, and the real issue
13:20 – 2017 overture: raising the alarm on denominational decline
15:00 – Multiply vision: 40 leaders in 10 years
17:00 – Strategy birth: how the 2009 crisis reshaped a classes
22:00 – 2023 overture fallout and planting momentum
26:00 – How overtures work + advisory committees explained
29:00 – Floor speech strategy: from frustration to motion
32:00 – Paul VanderPloeg’s “Mr. VanderPloeg Goes to Synod” video
36:00 – The funding crisis: Resonate’s painful announcement
39:00 – Church planting cutbacks & why it shocked the classes
41:00 – Scott’s floor speech clip: “We don’t lack anything”
47:00 – Gospel identity vs. blame + why decline must be addressed with action
52:00 – Jesus-centered leadership: problem-solving as gospel witness
56:00 – Multiply disciples. Multiply leaders. Multiply churches.
1:03:00 – Final floor motion: what passed and why it matters
1:06:00 – What’s next? Creating a denomination-wide plan
1:11:00 – Hesitations, leadership, and stepping into responsibility
1:13:00 – The 3-part plan: Disciples → Leaders → Churches
1:16:00 – Call to prayer + rallying the CRC for a gospel future
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If you're a pastor, church leader, or just passionate about the future of the CRC, this episode is a must-watch!
🔗 Resources, speech links, and Paul VanderKlay’s video: https://youtu.be/uflCO1yddMY
00:00 – Welcome back + Scott’s European vacation
01:45 – Why Greece? Biblical geography + visiting Apollonia
05:00 – The Apostle’s Step + preaching where Paul once stood
07:00 – Slowing down as a pastor + spiritual discipline reflections
09:00 – Explaining Synod + what it is and how it works
11:00 – Why Synod 2025 matters: decline, sexuality, and the real issue
13:20 – 2017 overture: raising the alarm on denominational decline
15:00 – Multiply vision: 40 leaders in 10 years
17:00 – Strategy birth: how the 2009 crisis reshaped a classes
22:00 – 2023 overture fallout and planting momentum
26:00 – How overtures work + advisory committees explained
29:00 – Floor speech strategy: from frustration to motion
32:00 – Paul VanderKlay’s “Mr. VanderPloeg Goes to Synod” video
36:00 – The funding crisis: Resonate’s painful announcement
39:00 – Church planting cutbacks & why it shocked the classes
41:00 – Scott’s floor speech clip: “We don’t lack anything”
47:00 – Gospel identity vs. blame + why decline must be addressed with action
52:00 – Jesus-centered leadership: problem-solving as gospel witness
56:00 – Multiply disciples. Multiply leaders. Multiply churches.
1:03:00 – Final floor motion: what passed and why it matters
1:06:00 – What’s next? Creating a denomination-wide plan
1:11:00 – Hesitations, leadership, and stepping into responsibility
1:13:00 – The 3-part plan: Disciples → Leaders → Churches
1:16:00 – Call to prayer + rallying the CRC for a gospel future
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💬 They discuss:
Why church planting is a gift that keeps on giving
The real danger of defunding church multiplication
What we should cut instead to preserve the mission
How funding impacts evangelism, discipleship, and growth
The temptation to deconstruct systems without gospel vision
Why faithfulness to God, not guaranteed results, is our true calling
If we want to reach more people for Christ, we must invest in multiplication—not pull away from it.
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You’ll hear how Dave’s gospel-centered identity sustained him through heartbreak, why longing is a powerful evangelistic tool, and how denominations can better support church planters for the future.
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00:00 – Intro: What surprised you most in church planting?
01:00 – Dave & Aaron’s friendship history
02:30 – Turning 40: A shift from growing to giving
03:45 – From worship leader to church planter
05:15 – Frustration with the church & unreached people
06:00 – Curiosity, doubt & being shut down in Catholic school
07:00 – Doubt as a path to deeper faith
08:00 – Safe places for skeptics in the church
09:10 – The universal longing for “more”
10:30 – The 27 Club & the hollowness of worldly success
12:00 – Emptiness after reaching the top (Deion Sanders story)
13:00 – Cultural idols: comfort, fame, success
14:15 – Gospel identity combats false measures of success
15:00 – Creating space for skeptics & believers to journey together
15:50 – The hardest part: planting a church while caring for a sick son
18:00 – Exhaustion, hospital visits, and spiritual storms
20:00 – Writing sermons while suffering
22:00 – Preaching truth before emotionally feeling it
24:00 – The need for gospel-centered identity in pastors
26:00 – Grove Church size & slow-growth model
28:20 – The real need: training for church planters
30:00 – Wearing all the hats: pastor, accountant, leader
31:00 – Why church planters learn what culture is really saying
32:40 – Established churches should learn from church planters
34:00 – What kind of people does a church plant need?
36:00 – Givers, businesspeople, skeptics, and new believers
38:00 – Team sizes and sending strategies
40:00 – Why churches are afraid to send planters
42:00 – The call to tithe your best people to new plants
44:00 – Why fewer people want to plant churches today
45:00 – Importance of a church planting coach
47:00 – Straight talk for denominational leaders: take the risk
49:00 – What makes a denomination attractive to planters?
50:00 – MNA (PCA) church planter assessment explained
51:30 – The importance of pre-plant training
52:00 – Final question: What are church planters learning?
53:00 – Hosting live Q&A after every sermon
54:30 – Unity in theological diversity
55:30 – How Grove Church handles infant baptism & disagreement
57:00 – Grit, endurance & faith stretched out
59:00 – How to preach to both believers & skeptics
1:00:00 – Longing: the thread that unites Christians & skeptics
1:01:00 – Why hope can feel cruel unless it leads somewhere
1:03:00 – The longing for justice, righteousness & a perfect king
1:04:30 – People want a life well-lived, not just good sermons
1:05:00 – Closing & how to support the podcastShow More

00:00 – The Future of Church Planting at Risk
01:30 – What Is Synod and Why It Matters
03:52 – First-Time Delegate Culture Shock
07:21 – Diversity Gaps in the CRC
10:58 – Theology vs. Strategy: Where We Divide
12:15 – Decline Stats That Shocked Synod
15:04 – Scott’s “Bad News” Speech
18:47 – Church Planters Push Back
21:20 – Is Cultural Identity Holding Us Back?
24:40 – Churches in Survival Mode
26:46 – Can Coaching Replace Funding?
30:23 – Who Really Supports Church Planters?
33:56 – Why Local Context Beats National Strategy
36:40 – Planting from Strength, Not Scarcity
39:41 – The Franchise Church Model Debate
43:11 – Real Support Means Practical Help
45:51 – “You Can’t Plant Churches with Kind Words”
48:43 – Are We Afraid to Admit Failure?
52:54 – \$200K or Coaching: What’s Worth More?
56:43 – Scott’s “Good News” Call to Action
1:00:08 – The Gospel Still Leads the Mission
1:01:13 – First Steps to a Real Church Plant Strategy
1:04:25 – The Next Chapter: Church Planting Series Begins
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🎙️ We talk about:
The biblical definition of a dad
Passive vs involved fathers in today’s world
Lies about fatherhood that men are tempted to believe
The rise of gentle parenting
Helping your kids become critically self-reliant and spiritually grounded
Practical advice for dads trying to live up to God’s calling
Whether you're a dad, want to be one, or are leading the next generation—this one’s for you!
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🎙️ Pastor Aaron sits down ...with Andrea and Kristen to discuss:
The lasting impact of VBS at Sunlight ☀️
How community helps us through hard seasons
What changed his perspective on children’s ministry
How kids’ spiritual growth can transform the entire church 🧠❤️
Controversial takes on modern approaches to children's ministry 😮
And how you can support kids ministry—without ever stepping into a classroom!
This episode is for parents, leaders, volunteers, and anyone passionate about discipling the next generation.
📅 New episodes every Thursday!
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They explore big questions like:
🤔 What’s the real threat to a young person’s faith today?
💰 Should we be paying kids for chores—or is that teaching the wrong lesson?
⌚️ When is the right time to introduce technology like smartphones?
💭 How do Christian parents navigate raising kids in a hyper-digital, fast-paced culture?
This conversation is packed with real talk, biblical insight, and practical wisdom for parents, church leaders, and anyone investing in the next generation.
👉 New episodes every Thursday on YouTube and your favorite podcast platform.
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We explore:
– Why phones and distraction are killing real connection 😶🌫️
– How modern culture promotes isolation vs. what Scripture says 🧍♂️➕🧍♀️
– The Church’s role in building genuine relationships ⛪
– The power of discipleship in community 🤝
– How YOU can start creating meaningful connection again 🙌
Whether you’ve felt alone in a crowd or just want deeper faith-based friendships, this episode will challenge and encourage you to build the kind of community Jesus modeled.
🎙 With Pastor Aaron Mamuyac, Pastor Scott Vander Ploeg & Pastor Jary Reed
💡 Brought to you by Sunlight Community Church👥
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In Episode 12 of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron Mamuyac sits down with Pastor Scott Vander Ploeg and 🎓 ...Sarah Wilson Hyde, Head of Schools at Sunlight Christian Academy, for a powerful conversation on the role of Christian education in shaping lives and communities.
🧠 They talk about:
How faith and deep thinking go hand-in-hand ✝️
Why Christian schools are more than just academics 📚
The origin story of Sunlight Christian Academy 🌱
Building a school that disciples the whole child 🙌
What it means to follow a calling from God 🔥
School and church working together as one mission 🏫⛪
Real stories of student leadership and faith 💡
💭 Could Christian education be one of the greatest mission fields today?
Tune in to hear why it might be—and how you can be part of it.
📅 New episodes every Thursday
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💬 Comment below: What’s one thing you believe Christian education should focus on most?
Timestamps:
00:22 - Why Christian Education Matters More Than Ever
01:37 - Jiu-Jitsu and Jesus: Discipline in Everyday Life
07:31 - Are We Prioritizing the Right Things for Our Kids?
13:01 - Amusement vs. Depth: What Are We Teaching Our Kids?
17:48 - Educating the Whole Child: Mind, Body & Spirit
20:39 - Building a Loving School Community That Lasts
24:29 - How a Hurricane Launched a Christian School
27:26 - From Pastor to Preschool Director: God’s Bigger Plan
35:39 - From Corporate to Called: Sarah’s Unexpected Journey
41:01 - When God Calls, It’s Never What You Expect
49:00 - What’s the Mission of Sunlight Christian Academy?
53:04 - Two Pillars: Gospel + Academic Excellence
56:52 - How to Stay Mission-Focused While Growing Fast
59:04 - Mission vs Covenant School: Why It Matters
1:01:17 - Christian Education as Long-Term Evangelism
1:04:59 - Church + School = A Model for Discipleship
1:11:15 - How Teachers Become Life-Long Disciple-Makers
1:14:38 - Real Stories of Student Faith in Action
1:18:48 - Outgrowing the Campus: Vision for the Future
1:23:19 - Called to More: Trusting God in the Unknown
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They tackle real questions like:
- ...How spiritually ready should someone be before marriage?
- What’s the most impactful thing parents can do to pass on their faith to their kids?
- What’s the most challenging season of motherhood—and how can faith make a difference?
- What does Scripture say about marriage, divorce, and raising a godly household?
Whether you’re a young adult thinking about marriage, a parent in the thick of it, or someone looking to build a faith-filled home, this episode offers honest insights, biblical wisdom, and practical encouragement.
🎉 This episode is sponsored by The Crafter Party by Cherie Youngblood — where creativity meets celebration. Visit her on social to book your next unforgettable event!
🎧 New episodes of The Disciple Standard Podcast drop every Thursday on YouTube.
Timestamps:
00:01 - Faith and Relationships
00:18 - Spiritual Disciplines in Marriage
00:58 - Introductions: The Podcast Panel
02:56 - Topic Setup: Marriage and Mother’s Day
03:18 - How They Met: The Andrea & Scott Story
10:33 - When Faith Becomes the Foundation
11:02 - Why We Chose Each Other
12:36 - A Relationship Rooted in the Bible
14:16 - What Drew Scott to Andrea
15:06 - The Commitment to Read the Bible Together
16:25 - Faith Compatibility and Dating
19:12 - Faith Level in Relationships
20:15 - Compatibility in Relationships
20:58 - Faith, Finances, and Core Values
22:00 - Dating Advice: Start with Faith
24:21 - Emotional and Spiritual Balance in Marriage
25:00 - Supporting Each Other Through Struggles
25:41 - 28 Years of Marriage
26:04 - Spiritual Disciplines for Couples
26:25 - Raising Kids with Active Faith
28:24 - Passive vs Active Faith Leadership at Home
28:59 - Benefits of Growing Up in Church
33:40 - Church is People, Not Just a Building
34:06 - Community as a Spiritual Discipline
36:05 - Faith and Community as Core Family Values
39:20 - Conflicting Schedules and Church Disconnect
39:44 - Re-centering the Family on Faith
40:25 - Shifting to Motherhood Challenges
43:06 - Trusting God's Plan for Your Kids
43:32 - Ministry Life and Its Demands on Marriage
47:00 - Wisdom and Discernment in Marriage
47:44 - Trusting a Husband’s Convictions
50:34 - The Unseen Sacrifices of Moms
52:01 - Single Mothers and Their Strength
53:26 - Sacrifice as a Form of Worship
56:37 - The CrafterParty Sponsor
57:22 - Introducing the Candace Owens Video
1:00:00 - Realizing My Own Selfishness in Marriage
1:01:52 - Why the Gospel Is Essential for Selflessness
1:02:21 - Culture’s Shifting View on Marriage
1:02:41 - Introducing a Video: "Marriage Is an L"
1:03:53 - Dating with Core Values in Mind
1:04:33 - Cultural Resistance to Commitment
1:05:17 - Marriage Is a Sacred Covenant, Not a Contract
1:05:45 - Love Is Always a Risk
1:06:30 - Marriage Exposes Deep Vulnerability
1:07:13 - Sticking Through Hardship with Covenant Love
1:08:06 - Love Requires Trust in the Covenant
1:08:29 - Abuse Is a Clear Exception
1:08:54 - Abuse Requires Boundaries and Help
1:09:17 - The Risk of Unequally Yoked Marriages
1:09:47 - Advice for Unequally Yoked Marriages
1:10:15 - Don’t Ignore Foundational Incompatibilities
1:10:35 - When One Spouse Converts in Marriage
1:11:23 - Living as a Christian Witness in Marriage
1:12:12 - Common but Challenging: Mixed-Faith Marriages
1:12:38 - Encouragement for the Faithful Spouse
1:13:12 - Seek Wisdom, Pray, and Persevere
1:13:57 - Why We Were Hesitant About This Episode
1:14:21 - Comparison and the Danger of Idealizing Others
1:15:07 - Social Media’s Skewed View of Marriage
1:15:50 - Embracing Your Unique Relationship Journey
1:16:08 - Psalm 16: Finding Peace in Your Own “Land”
1:16:35 - Choosing Thankfulness Over Comparison
1:17:12 - God’s Unique Plan for Each of Us
1:17:38 - Trusting God's Plan Through All Seasons
1:18:10 - Gratitude for the Life God Gave Me
1:18:32 - Trusting God Over Discontentment
1:19:00 - Finding Joy and Contentment Now
1:19:24 - God’s Intimate Involvement and Gratefulness
1:19:50 - Marriage Challenges and Life’s Seasons
1:20:22 - Moving to Florida: A Major Challenge
1:20:44 - Struggling with Family Distance and Jealousy
1:21:09 - Trusting God Through the Transition
1:21:46 - Overcoming Bitterness and Finding Home
1:22:10 - Mindset Shift and Contentment
1:22:31 - Loneliness and Comparison in Port St. Lucie
1:22:49 - The Danger of Social Media Comparisons
1:23:22 - Reminder of Our Delightful Inheritance
1:23:38 - Closing Remarks and Thanks
1:24:03 - Outro and Upcoming Topics
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In Episode 10 of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron, Pastor Zach, and Seron dive deep into the topic of identity and what it means to truly ...know yourself.
They ask big questions like:
👀 What’s something you once believed about yourself that wasn’t actually true?
🤯 Is our culture becoming more self-aware—or more self-deceived?
👥 How do your true needs and stress responses affect your closest relationships?
🙌 And how can tools like the Birkman test help you better understand who God made you to be?
This episode is raw, relatable, and packed with insights that might challenge how you view yourself and your faith walk. Because the truth is—you can’t grow spiritually without knowing who you really are.
🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday on YouTube!
00:00 – Welcome & Introductions
00:57 – Gorilla vs. 100 Men Debate Begins
02:20 – Hypothetical Fight Logistics
03:25 – Environment and Fear Factor
05:01 – Fighting a Gorilla at the Church
05:57 – Transition to Topic: Identity
07:02 – Self-Limiting Beliefs
07:32 – Brutal Honesty as a Flawed Belief
08:41 – Realizing the Impact of Brutal Honesty
09:51 – Leadership and Communication Shift
10:38 – Stress Responses & Behavioral Patterns
12:09 – Behavioral Assessment Breakdown
13:32 – Vision Ownership and Group Dynamics
14:32 – Sharing Personality Assessments in Relationships
15:07 – Practicality vs. Emotion in Communication
21:46 – Culture Shift Toward Emotional Awareness
22:16 – Self-Awareness vs. Self-Deception: Personal Ratings
23:06 – The Impact of the Birkman Assessment
24:05 – Pre-Birkman Mindset: "This Is Just Who I Am"
25:00 – Self-Deception and Doubling Down on Beliefs
25:53 – Affirmation, Identity, and the Turning Point
26:52 – Considering the Impact on Others
27:34 – Perception vs. Reality: The “Terrifying” Teddy Bear
28:23 – Who Are We Under Stress?
29:11 – Stress as a Degradation of Our Best Selves
30:20 – Stress Behavior Explained Through Needs
31:29 – Our True Self: The Role of Needs
32:09 – Do Needs Lessen as We Mature in Christ?
33:38 – Viktor Frankl, Suffering, and Joy in Christ
34:38 – Needs Met in Christ, Not Circumstances
35:12 – Misplaced Expectations in Relationships and Teams
35:55 – The Leader’s Role: Meeting the Needs of the Team
36:09 – Applying This to Marriage: Belonging and Affection
40:53 – Social Needs vs. Social Norms
41:27 – Being Frank and Forthright
42:13 – The West Michigan Ramble
42:35 – Cutting Through Small Talk
43:06 – Cultural Communication Styles
44:44 – Person-Focused vs. Issue-Focused Feedback
45:21 – Directness vs. Tactfulness in Ministry
46:46 – Cultural Definitions of Directness
47:49 – Birkman Score Extremes
48:36 – Misread Needs and Bottled Emotions
49:43 – The Desire for Respect
50:40 – Feeling Respected vs. Feeling Dismissed
51:34 – The Impact of Key Relationships
52:31 – Scoffs, Dismissiveness, and Vulnerability
53:42 – Recognizing Deep Emotional Triggers
54:19 – Understanding Others’ Communication Styles
54:46 – The Need for Genuine Praise
1:00:04 - Self-Perception and Social Perception
1:00:52 - Birkman Interests Overview
1:01:30 - Birkman Scores on Patreon
1:01:48 - Seron's Motivation and Interests
1:02:12 - Clash Between Interest and Actions
1:02:35 - Siron Explains Outdoor Interests
1:03:14 - Trinity’s Low Artistic Interest
1:03:36 - Different Approaches to Artistic Interests
1:04:02 - Importance of Persuasive Interests
1:04:20 - Sales and Persuasive Interests
1:04:46 - Aligning Roles with Interests
1:05:32 - Role Misalignment and Job Satisfaction
1:05:59 - Birkman Interests as a Reflection of God's Image
1:06:29 - Psalm 139 and Birkman Interests
1:06:58 - Personal Examples of Career Alignment
1:07:17 - Top Interests and Career Fit
1:07:43 - Career Wheel and Role Clarity
1:08:33 - Integrating Personal Interests into Work
1:09:03 - Reflecting God's Image Through Interests
1:09:24 - Aligning Top Interests for Fulfillment
1:09:47 - Interest in Music and Role Alignment
1:10:33 - Importance of Living Into Your Interests
1:10:54 - Interests as Tuning Forks
1:11:18 - How to Engage Interests for Job Fulfillment
1:11:44 - Coaching for Role Adjustment
1:12:14 - Using Interests for Career and Personal Growth
1:12:51 - Music as a Stress Relief
1:13:15 - The Role of Social Energy in Work
1:13:57 - Using Interests to Recharge
1:14:21 - Strategies for Engaging with People
1:14:57 - Understanding Needs for Better Relationships
1:15:23 - Shalom and Peaceful Relationships
1:15:44 - Negative Impact of Unmet Needs
1:16:06 - Stress from Lack of Personal Space
1:16:49 - The Importance of Personal Recharge Time
1:17:09 - The Impact of Home Environment on Stress
1:17:50 - Finding Solutions to Stressors
1:18:06 - Birkman Results and Patreon
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Real talk for real disciples. Each episode dives into the issues that matter most—from spiritual formation and biblical theology to leadership, culture, relationships, and how to live as a disciple-making Christian in a distracted world. It’s unfiltered, often funny, and deeply practical. We also share how our 222Disciple process is helping everyday believers grow in the gospel, get personally invested in others, and become the kind of disciple-makers Jesus envisioned in Matthew 28 and 2 Timothy 2:2. If you’re ready to take your faith seriously and multiply your life in others, this podcast is for you.
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Scott Vander Ploeg
Scott Vander Ploeg is the founder of 222Disciple and has been the senior pastor at Sunlight Community Church of Port Saint Lucie since 2004. He began this ministry in the early 2000’s, which was called Sunlight Discipleship Center at the time. Since then, he’s authored all of the lessons, is front and center in its tutorial videos, all while mentoring more than 40 people himself. The ever-expanding ministry has now grown to over 580 people under his leadership. He’s passionate about one of 222Disciple’s driving principles: disciples are called to be disciple-makers.
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Aaron Mamuyac
Aaron Mamuyac brings over two decades of ministry experience and a deep love for discipleship to The Disciple Standard podcast. A long-time member and now pastor at Sunlight Community Church, Aaron has served in ministry for more than 11 years and was discipled under the faithful leadership of Scott Vander Ploeg. As an ordained Minister of the Word in the Christian Reformed Church, Aaron combines biblical depth with practical wisdom, helping listeners follow Jesus with clarity and conviction. Whether he’s unpacking Scripture, interviewing guests, or offering reflections from the trenches of pastoral life, Aaron brings a warm, insightful, and grounded voice to every episode.
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